Hi, everyone, and welcome to new readers -
I'm on the plane en route back from the Girlfriends' Getaway Weekend in Bermuda. It was a lovely event and I met some amazing women, notably the conference planner, Nadja Piatka, founder of Nadja Foods and Donna Voll, a co-presenter who is an expert on angels. Donna has an Internet radio show that's worth knowing about.
Bermuda is like a jewel in the sea with hibiscus blooming everywhere. It's very British (they drive on the UK side of the road) and laid back. The speed limit is 25 mph and life is like that, too. I had the privilege of visiting a longtime friend, Lane Martin, whom I met through the homeschooling community in Connecticut way back in 1990. She's since moved back to her native Bermuda and gave me the chance to see the island from a local's point of view. She also gave me a tour of her backyard orchard - banana, avocado, guava, cherry, peach and fig trees, plus a grape arbor. (Lane is a raw foodist and just returned from the Raw Spirit Fest in Sedona.)
Because it was our tenth anniversary, William made the trip with me. He's not ready to travel or do anything really. (For those of you new to the Charmed Monday Minute, our youngest child, James - William's son, my stepson passed away last month.) The loss is still very fresh. And because of that, a major change is about to happen in our lives: we've moving to Woodstock, New York. I know they tell you not to make any major changes the first year after a tragic loss, but we need to do this. William is working far too much in order to keep us in Manhattan and he needs to get away, let some of the stresses go, and focus on processing what's happened, grieving, and healing. Woodstock seems perfect: there's a lot of music there and he can reactivate his musical life (William plays harmonica, accordion, and French horn), and it's a close-knit community that's as cute as it can be. We've rented an apartment over an art and office-supply store on the main street. Among the town's unique offerings are a spiritual bookstore and a regular bookstore, two vegetarian restaurants (one of which is vegan), a good natural foods market a block away, a cute café where I can write (to make up for my neighborhood Starbucks in NYC moving away), and a farm animal sanctuary eight miles up the road. There seems to be a strong spiritual community and plenty of yoga and Pilates. I think it is the perfect place to write the sequel to Creating a Charmed Life. The publisher is still deciding if they want it or not. Please send good thoughts and prayers in that direction. To leave the city and my support system there without having a book to write would be tough.
Here's the plan: We can take possession of the apartment November 15 so we'll drive up that weekend in a rental car with plans to clean the flat, measure the space, decide where we'll put things, tend to any necessary repairs, and get our Internet and cable hooked up. We'll also buy a car (I never thought I'd own a car again, but life throws curves...) Then we'll go back to NYC and get packed to move over the Thanksgiving long weekend.
It will be a busy month: William is going to Toronto in a few days for a posthumous honor for James (he's getting his school's Social Justice Award) and I'll hold down the fort. I'll also be giving a class, "How to Develop a Spiritual Life," this Thursday evening at the NYC Learning Annex. The following weekend I'll be in Amsterdam, NY, to speak for a TOPS club conference and then to Albany to speak for the Unity church there the first Sunday in November. The following weekend I'll be in Orlando for The Masters Circle, a huge chiropractic seminar where I'll be on the program with speakers including Mark Victor Hansen and Dr. John DiMartini. That will end my speaking year and I can cycle into a quieter way of being without the travel and stepping so often into "public mode." It will be a good time to move, set up housekeeping, and be more inward-focused for awhile.
Joya will stay on with me as a virtual assistant so you'll get the Charmed Monday Minute as usual. I will not take new in-person coaching clients in New York City, but I will continue coaching and adding more telephone clients from around North America to my list. In fact, I may run a "moving sale" to make coaching available to more new clients - watch for that in an upcoming Minute.
My very best, Victoria | |
Book of the week:
Pornography for Women, by the Cambridge Women's Pornography Collective and Susan Anderson (2007).
This is really fun little book. Its point of view is obvious from the cover photo: a great-looking guy vacuuming! The book is comprised of photos of handsome men doing and saying what really turns women on, like "I don't have any answers, but let me make you a cup of tea and then I'll listen," "Is this the way you like me to fold your blouses?" At the back of book, each model is given a tongue-in-cheek profile that lets us know that he's planning to open the world's first "luxury orphanage" and that his most admired person is his mom.
This would make a great gift or stocking stuffer, a fun little something for a bride, and a humorous conversation starter when you're having a night out with your girlfriends. (It's a not a bad hint for a guy either.) | |
New Film:
Suzanne Taylor is a friend who I met during my book tour for Shelter for the Spirit in 1997. She has produced and directed a fascinating film called Walking in Circles, a new feature-length documentary on crop circles. It will receive its first preview showing in November at the "Shh! It's A Secret! Not on the 6 O'Clock News" Conference in Tempe, Arizona. For more info on the conference, click here. Clarification from the last "Minute"...
In the chocolate cake recipe, it should have read "bake for 25-30 minutes," not "5-30 minutes"! Oops! An Important Cause:
Reader Carol Dickman wrote a few weeks ago to ask if we could help spread awareness about her son's condition. She writes...
"My son, Rob, has had psoriasis and psoriatic arthritis for over 10 years now, and I have witnessed the pain he has been subjected to by people thinking the disease is contagious. He's been asked to leave restaurants and get out of swimming pools, and people shy away from him. There are several approaches being taken these days to make people more aware of psoriasis and psoriatic arthritis. The goal is to spread the word that it is not contagious and to give encouragement to those who suffer with the disease."
To hear more about Rob's story, you can view the YouTube video he made to help spread awareness of psoriasis here.
To learn the facts about psoriasis and what you can do to help, check out the site of this advocacy group working to find a cure for the condition, Psoriasis Cure Now. New Internet Radio Show:
You can listen to my internet radio show on HealthyLife.net from noon to 1pm EST every 4th Wednesday of the month. Yesterday's show was wonderful, featuring my action partner and opera-singer-extraordinaire, Sherry Boone. Check it out in the archives here.
(Trouble listening? Click here for the site's help page.) | |
Victoria, Virtual Life Coach!
Victoria is now the official Life Coach of the blog "Elastic Waist" and will be featured a few times a month in exclusive interviews! To view the first post, click here. The second, which just came out today, is here. Enjoy! OprahSelects.com:
Fat, Broke & Lonely No More was picked for OprahSelects.com since Victoria was a guest on the Jean Chatzky Show on Oprah & Friends Radio. If you go to the page, you can write a reader review if you'd like. | |
Victoria on ABC News Now!
To view part of an interview with Victoria on yesterday's Good Morning America Now, click here and scroll down to "Video: Fat, Broke, and Lonely." | |
WHERE I'LL BE...
-TONIGHT! New York, NY: Learning Annex, "How to Live a More Spiritual Life." October 25, 6:45pm.
-Amsterdam, NY: Keynote address, regional conference, TOPS (Take Off Pounds Sensibly), November 3. Contact person: Judy Pettit, 518-438-8928.
-Albany, NY: Guest Speaker at Unity Church, 21 King Ave. (topic: "The God Shaped Hole") November 4th at 9:00 & 11:00 AM. Book signings 10:00 AM and 12:00 PM. Tel: 518-453-3603.
-November 8-10: The Masters Circle SuperConference for chiropractors, Lake Buena Vista, FL.
Site to check out: When you have a chance, click on over to SelfGrowth.com- - SelfGrowth.com is the most complete guide to information about Self Improvement, Personal Growth and Self Help on the Internet. It is designed to be an organized directory, with articles and references to thousands of other Web Sites on the World Wide Web. | |